large waist small hips jeans::I usually end up finding a oneofakind pair that is buried on a rack at marshalls large waist small hips jeans

large waist small hips jeans::I usually end up finding a oneofakind pair that is buried on a rack at marshalls.
It is so demoralizing to spend literally days searching for pants.
Usually the pants are sooo big in the waist that they cannot feasibly be altered.
I have been searching for the last month for jeans and ended up with a pair of lee relaxed fit stretch jeans.
They are ok, but not fantastic.
Still too big in the waist and after i have worn them a bit, so stretched out they are almost too big.
I am so tired of ending up with whatever comes closest to fitting just to have something to wear, which means it usually has no style.
Some hitormiss luck with bill blass.
Has anyone ever tried this?